What Is a Quiet Time and Why Does It Matter?

Spending time with God isn’t about checking a box. It’s about drawing near to the One who loves you most.
For many, quiet time has become a burden rather than a joy—but it doesn’t have to stay that way.

Why do so many Christians feel guilt over quiet time?

Many believers live under the weight of Quiet Time Guilt. Somewhere along the way, we were taught that God's blessing depends on our performance. Miss a morning devotional? We fear we’ve let God down. Read the Bible every day for a week? We feel proud. But this mindset is legalism in disguise. God doesn’t love us more on the days we show up and less on the days we don’t. He meets us in grace, not guilt.

What if I don’t have a perfect quiet time routine?

You’re not alone. The idea that every Christian must sit still with an open Bible for 30 minutes at sunrise is a fairly modern concept. Scripture doesn’t command a specific daily quiet time. What it does call us to is continuous connection with God through prayer, reflection, and meditation on His Word—throughout the day.

How can I spend time with God if mornings aren’t my thing?

Your quiet time doesn’t have to look like anyone else’s. You might connect best with God during a lunch break, evening walk, or commute. You can talk to Him in the car, listen to Scripture through a podcast, or discuss the Bible with friends. What matters is not when or where—it’s that you come with a heart that’s open and dependent on Him.

What’s the key to enjoying time with God?

Stop striving. Start delighting. Time with God is meant to be a grace, not a grind. It’s not about proving your devotion, but receiving His. Don’t let guilt rob you of the joy found in God's presence.

However and whenever you meet with God, may your path be well-worn and filled with joy—not pressure. He’s waiting to meet with you.